“you are your first responsibility. this is not selfishness or egotism, nor is it lack of love and caring for others. it is that only you can make decisions that are in line with your instincts and intuition, your soul’s guidance to your consciousness that nudges you into avenues that in your soul contract you chose to experience during this lifetime. this may include changes in relationships, employment, location, group affiliation or other interests and activities.” ~mathew speaks